How to Stop Standing in Your Own Way and Unlock Your Greatness
Have you ever felt like something is holding you back—but when you take a closer look, you realize it’s you? We all have moments where self-doubt, fear, or ingrained habits keep us from reaching our full potential. The truth is, the biggest obstacle to our success is often ourselves.
I’ve been there. I’ve experienced those inner roadblocks firsthand, but I’ve also found ways to break through them. My journey to getting out of my own way included meditation, therapy, self-help books, podcasts, documentaries, traveling, Tai Chi, walking, connecting with others, strengthening relationships with loved ones, and meeting new people. It wasn’t an overnight process, but each step helped me shed layers of self-imposed limitations.
Now, let’s talk about how you can do the same.
6 Ways We Stand in Our Own Way/ 6 ways to stop!
1. Fear of Failure (or Success)
Sometimes, we’re afraid to fail, so we don’t even try. Other times, we’re scared of what success might bring—more responsibility, higher expectations, or the unknown. Either way, fear keeps us stuck. Growth happens when we push past our familiar routines. If you keep doing the same things, you’ll keep getting the same results.
2. Negative Self-Talk
That inner voice that says, “I’m not good enough,” “I can’t do this,” or “I don’t deserve it” is often the biggest roadblock. When we believe these thoughts, we limit our potential before we even start. Meditation helps you observe your thoughts instead of getting caught up in them. It creates space between you and your doubts, making it easier to reframe negativity and move forward with clarity.
3. Overthinking Everything
Analysis paralysis is real. If you spend too much time questioning every decision, you’ll never move forward. Sometimes, action is the only answer.Talking to a professional can help you uncover and rewire limiting beliefs. Therapy isn’t just for healing—it’s also a tool for growth, self-discovery, and breaking generational patterns.
4. Staying in the Comfort Zone
Growth happens when we push past our familiar routines. If you keep doing the same things, you’ll keep getting the same results. Whats important is to change your environment to seek inspiration. Go stay in a hotel for a weekend nearby or travel to a new city for the day!
5. Not Prioritizing Your Well-Being
If you’re exhausted, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself, it’s hard to pursue greatness. Mental, physical, and emotional well-being are the foundation for success.
Movement is a powerful way to clear mental blocks. Tai Chi, with its meditative flow, connects the body and mind, helping you cultivate inner strength and resilience. Walking, especially in nature, brings clarity and a sense of renewal.
6. Connection: Surround Yourself with Growth-Minded People
The people in your life influence your mindset. Strengthening relationships with loved ones and meeting new people who inspire and challenge you can help you evolve. Seek out conversations that push you toward growth.
Your Personal Greatness Awaits!
Getting out of your own way isn’t about becoming someone new—it’s about shedding what no longer serves you and stepping into the best version of yourself.
What’s one small step you can take today? Whether it’s sitting in stillness, reading something inspiring, or having a deep conversation, every action counts.
Your greatness isn’t in the distance—it’s within you, waiting to be unleashed. The only question is: Will you allow yourself to step into it?
-Erica
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